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Friday, April 23, 2010

a lil research (on my copycat)

Yep, I call it a lil research! ;)
It's still about my best copycat that i told you before. But it's the "calm way" (realize that i was on my PMS when i wrote my previous blog). ;P

Last Wednesday, i met my copycat again, at campus (the only place we could possibly meet). I saw her staring at me from the distance that time, before i eventually came to her and say hi. It's a rare thing for me to have that situatin. Because although we are friends, we only meet when we're hanging out with other friends only. So it's kinda weird situation for me.

While waiting for my lecture to come, i spent my time with her to get to know her better. So i could understand her much (my wish). Ya, we talked a lot that time (for the first time).

That noon, i began to ask her anything, and she replied. I asked her the things that makes me always wondering why she always try to copy me in everything.

You know what? I got the answer! And that made me really understand why she did it so far.
Yep, she needs a role model! (as Tywo said to me. You're right Tywo, thanks! :> ) Because she didn't have it so far.

In my conclusion: She doesn't have enough confidence all this time. Probably due to her weight, state of the economy, or anything else that becomes the problem. Until finally she knows me and make me as her role model. To change, and become better [from her point of view]. (Although sometimes it was slightly disturbing me) ;p But, it's ok for now. Because i've come to understand why. :)

Now, I've decided to get closer to her. So, i'll get understand her more and more, and i could help her to find her own "identity" (a beautiful image of her self). Yep, i will! x)

Well well well, I still wanna talk about her much here, but i got to go now for Endah n Rhesa live accoustic performance right now! I don't wanna miss it even for a sec! (click the link, i bet you'll like them too!) ;)

So, i really am going now... hhi See you later bloggers! :*

x.o. Januari

7 comments:

RicAdeMus said...

Wow, that situation has taken a great turn. It is so sweet that you are willing to help her. Many girls would insult her and avoid her.

This is nice!

Have a great weekend.

tywo said...

Darling, I'm so glad my advice made sense..:)
You did the right thing. Everybody is going through something difficult, whether they show it or not.

How did your concert go?

LOVE!

Chloe, Butterfly Cupcakes said...

I think its a good idea to help her find her own personality.

Love the blog by the way, the layout is cute.

TheLittleFlower said...

Enjoy the performance! That's a nice thing you're doing to her :)

ceritajanuari said...

@RicAdeMus

Ya, I just try to do a right thing for her..
Thank you!
Have a great weekend to you too! :)


@tywo

Yep! Always love your advice Tywo, Thanks! :)
The concert was really amazing, and i'm very happy that night! Wish you were here to see that too! :)


@Chloe, Butterfly Cupcakes

Yep, I think it would be a great idea too!
Well Thanks a lot sweety! I love my blog either!
Thank you for comming by. I love your fashion post! :)


@TheLittleFlower

Thank you! Ya, i hope it would be nice for her too!
Thanks for coming by! Love your blog by the way! :)

nando.gino said...

Wow, it sound like u r one of the popular girls in ur campus. Anyway, glad to know you are being good to ur copy-cat,,I mean she has the right point, when life is something like stucked and no spirit, looking for a role model is the good thing.

What you have to do is just be sure that you always be a good role model, and I believe that you are. Thats it.

Anyway,,how was the concert ?

ceritajanuari said...

@nando.gino

hahaha I'm not that popular Nando. Ya, I'll try my best to be a good role model for her.

The concert was very awesome! It made me <3 them more and more! :)

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